Beloved Friends,
In this week’s Torah portion Yitro, we encounter a transformative moment between Moses and his father-in-law, Jethro. More than a lesson in leadership, this exchange is about connection, trust, and community—values that resonate deeply with who we are as a congregation.
Jethro sees Moses struggling under the weight of responsibility, and with warmth and wisdom, he gently advises:
“You will surely wear yourself out, both you and these people who are with you, for the task is too heavy for you; you cannot do it alone” (Exodus 18:18).
Rashi, drawing from the Midrash, explains that Moses’ leadership, though noble, was unsustainable. His reluctance to delegate wasn’t just a practical concern but a middah (soul trait) issue—one connected to anavah (humility). True humility isn’t about doing everything yourself; it’s about knowing when to step back, trust others, and build something greater together.
The Chovot HaLevavot (Duties of the Heart) reminds us:
“A person should not believe that he is indispensable, for such thinking stems from arrogance, not humility.”
This is the essence of what we strive for at Temple Jeremiah. Our community is not built on the efforts of any one person alone, but on the shared strength of many. We lean on each other, learn from each other, and lift each other up.
From a Mussar perspective, Jethro’s lesson teaches us about bitachon (trust)—not only in God but in those around us. Rabbi Simcha Zissel Ziv, the Alter of Kelm, beautifully articulates:
“A person must strive to see the greatness in others, for if he believes only he is capable, he diminishes not only them but also himself.”
Jethro’s words to Moses weren’t just practical advice; they were a message of rachamim (compassion) and simcha (joy). When we let others take part in leadership—whether in our families, our work, or our spiritual lives—we create space for more voices, more perspectives, and more blessings.
So let’s ask ourselves: Do we trust others enough to share the load? Do we allow space for others to shine? Are we creating moments where each person feels the joy of belonging?
As we reflect on Yitro, may we take Jethro’s wisdom to heart. May we find the courage to ask for help, the humility to share our burdens, and the faith to believe in the greatness of those around us. And in doing so, may we continue to build a community that reflects the very best of who we are.
Shabbat Shalom,
